Essentially it's this:
- World Vision announced they would no longer oppose employing people who were in gay marriages.
- Then they changed their mind.
- In the midst of that, a lot of people got really mad.
I wasn't going to post anything about my thoughts on this, but I decided to... not because I think it is so important that I say something about this issue, but because I really want to say something about the more important issue which is:
How we talk to each other. How we talk about each other. How we listen to each other.
When I first read of World Vision's decision, I knew instantly what would happen. It was predictable. A huge amount of people who were loud and visible took the easy route. They responded in ways which lacked the grace and nuance necessary to appropriately represent Christ as ambassadors of his kingdom.
Generally, the easy responses were this:
1. World Vision is run by terrible Christians and I'm withdrawing my support from this organization.Predictable. Sad. Easy. Wrong.
2. Anyone who would withdraw support from children because they don't like gay people is a terrible Christian.
I don't know everything, but for what it's worth, here's where I am:
1. I currently support financially many organizations, including some which have no obvious Christian affiliation (Kiva, etc.)
2. I don't currently sponsor children through World Vision.
3. If I did, I wouldn't have pulled my support of those children because of this decision. (I do not believe gay marriage is part of God's plan for humanity, as He revealed it in His Word.)
4. Initially, I thought anyone who pulled their support of World Vision was wrong, that they were choosing the wrong battle and the wrong hill to die on. In my heart, I judged them as less discerning as myself and labelled them as overly fundamentalist.
5. Today I was presented with evidence which proved me to be in the wrong. I was shown a compelling arguments for why it was appropriate for someone to pull their support of World Vision based on this decision.
6. The argument I heard did not convince me to change my own opinion. I still would not pull my support.
7. The argument did convince me that there were many Christians who agonized over this decision and sincerely wrestled with their conscience before making a very difficult decision.
8. I chose to assume that everyone who pulled their support from World Vision did so because they were convinced in their heart that honoring God required them to do so. (I got that idea from 1 Corinthians 13 which says, "love believes all things")
9. I also chose to hope that everyone who pulled their support from World Vision found another place to invest that money so that children around the world could continue to benefit from their generosity. (I also got that idea from 1 Corinthians 13 which says, "love hopes all things")
10. Finally, I decided to remain silent on this issue because I didn't want to add my voice to the cacophony of Christian voices sowing discord across the kingdom.
Then I thought perhaps I could just say this...
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
and this...
So why do you condemn another believer? Why do you look down on another believer? Remember, we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.
So let’s stop condemning each other. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall.
For the Kingdom of God is not a matter of what we eat or drink, but of living a life of goodness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. If you serve Christ with this attitude, you will please God, and others will approve of you, too. So then, let us aim for harmony in the church and try to build each other up.
David, love your comments and insights. I wonder if there is a time for a movement of those in the middle, those who reject the vitriol that comes from the extremes... thanks for this!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jonathan. I keep looking for a word other than "middle" that communicates "I'm with all of you, I just don't agree with all of you."
Delete"Middle" seems to create a third camp which we can start to fortify and from which we can create our own rhetorical WMDs...
But, yeah. I agree with you.