When Life Feels Out Of Control, Remember This...

Sometimes life takes turns we didn’t expect—painful ones. People betray us. Plans fall apart. The path gets dark and confusing. In those moments, it’s tempting to wonder, Where is God in all of this?

The story of Joseph in Genesis 50 reminds us that God is never absent—He’s always working, even when we can’t see it. Joseph experienced rejection, slavery, and injustice, but he looked back and saw God’s hand in all of it. What others meant to harm him, God used to bless not only Joseph, but countless others.

That’s the power of God's perspective. While we focus on what’s right in front of us, He sees the whole picture. He’s not just fixing today’s problems—He’s preparing something far greater for tomorrow.

Maybe what you’re facing isn’t good right now. But that doesn’t mean God has stopped being good. The delay, the difficulty, the detour—it may be the very thing God is using to position you for what’s next.

You don’t have to understand everything to trust Him in anything. Keep going. Keep believing. Your story isn’t over—and the God who’s writing it is faithful, wise, and good through it all.

DON'T WASTE YOUR WAIT!

Waiting can feel like a waste of time, but Joseph’s story in Genesis 40 reminds us that waiting is an opportunity. Even in prison, unsure of his future, Joseph didn’t wallow in self-pity—he served. Instead of obsessing over his own injustice, he noticed the pain of others. When Pharaoh’s cupbearer and baker were troubled by their dreams, Joseph cared enough to ask, “Why do you look so sad today?” (Genesis 40:7).

Like Joseph, we often don’t know what God is doing in our waiting seasons. But we do know this: focusing on people rather than problems keeps our hearts soft and our faith strong. Instead of getting stuck in frustration, look for ways to encourage someone, pray for a friend, or serve where you are. You may not see the full picture yet, but God is working. Don’t waste your wait—use it to bless others.

Gratitude Is The Path to Happiness

 Are you unhappy? How much time do you spend thinking about how unhappy you are? The more you focus on your discontent, the more it will grow. If you want to change your unhappiness, you need to change your focus. 

Gratitude shifts your attention from what’s wrong to what’s right. People who practice gratitude feel better about life. They sleep better, their mental health is better, their relationships are better. They are happier, more content, and more fun to be around. Science demonstrates this to be true as does Scripture.

Philippians 4:6 tells us to pray with thanksgiving. Gratitude isn’t just a polite habit—it’s a spiritual weapon against anxiety and discontent. Jesus Himself gave thanks even when facing death. If He could do that, we can give thanks in all circumstances.

Make gratitude a daily practice. Begin and end each day with the words THANK YOU. It’s a habit that will change your life.

Make Better Decisions By Learning From Ant Man

I try to read a chapter from Proverbs every day. Today is March 6, so I was in Proverbs 6 this morning. I came across a verse I’ve read many times before, but today noticed a powerful decision-making process that can be helpful in any situation.

Proverbs 6:6 says, “Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise.” That tiny creature has a lot to teach us about decision-making.

1️⃣ OBSERVE – “Go to the ant.” Before making any decision, observe. Gather information. Too often, we rush into choices without seeing the full picture. Wisdom starts with awareness.

2️⃣ CONSIDER – “Consider her ways.” Take some time to think about and sort your observations. Ask “why?” and then ask “why?” again. Think about the details and think about the big picture. Think about the outcomes in 5 minutes, 5 days, 5 months, and 5 years.

3️⃣ ACT – “Be wise.” The process must move past consideration. Too many people get stuck in analysis paralysis. Wisdom isn’t just knowing what’s right; it’s doing it. Make a decision and then act on it with confidence.

Whether it’s career moves, relationships, or faith, the Antman approach works. Observe. Contemplate. Act. Small steps of wisdom lead to big outcomes. 🐜 #DecisionMaking #Wisdom #Leadership

DISTRACTIONS ARE WRONG-WAY ATTRACTIONS

Tucked into the middle of one of Jesus' most popular parables is a powerful teaching about distraction. In Matthew 13, Jesus told and explained the Parable of the Sower (sometimes call the Parable of the Four Soils). In verse 22, Jesus was explaining the meaning of His parable and said:

As for what was sown among thorns, this is the one who hears the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and it proves unfruitful.

This verse seems to describe a person who is unable to fully accept the gospel of grace because they are distracted. Distractions are wrong-way attractions. Those who are attracted to what the world offers will always struggle to be attracted to what Christ offers.

The cares of the world often seem very important at the moment, but when we view them with the proper perspective, we discover they are not nearly as important as initially thought.

A great exercise to evaluate potential distractions is to use the 5x5 method (5 questions with the number 5) to determine whether something is BETTER or whether it is LESSER:

--> How much will it matter in 5 minutes?

--> How much will it matter in 5 days?

--> How much will it matter in 5 months?

--> How much will it matter in 5 years?

--> How much will it matter to the 5 people closest to me?

Don't let distractions derail your life. Learn to focus on the better thing instead of the lesser thing.

Check out this 4 week devotional about distractions

10 Sermon Leftovers From The Life Of Samson (Judges 13-14)

Some have said that Samson was a He-Man with a She-Weakness. We might also say that he was someone with Dynamite Potential but was derailed by a Distraction Problem. Here are 10 Leftovers from my recent sermon on Judges 13-14.

1. Samson was a shadow of Jesus. His miraculous birth was foreshadowed by an angel and he was born specifically to deliver his people.

2. God's purpose for Samson was empowered by the gifts He gave to Samson. In the same way God has empowered the church to accomplish the purpose He gave them (Matthew 28 & 1 Corinthians 13)

3. Why was God willing to consistently punish the Canaanites?

• His original desire was to bless them through Abraham (Genesis 12:3).
• He patiently waited for them to repent (Genesis 15:16, 2 Peter 3:9)
• Even in the midst of judgment, He extended grace to those who came to him. (Rahab - Hebrews 11:31)

4. EVERYTHING in the Samson story needs to be viewed through this lens: The Philistines were the enemies of God and God's people. God's intention was to remove their evil from the earth (something we all appreciate)

5. Some degree of Samson's failure can be attached to his parent's weakness. They did not need to affirm Samson's sin (marriage to Philistine), but they chose to facilitate it and participate in it. Permissive parenting is always easier but never better.

6. Samson and his parents were all terribly flawed. God still used them in unexpected ways. God uses flawed people!

7. Samson's purpose was to begin saving Israel from the Philistines. David finished the job. David's job was to begin the royal line of the Messiah. Jesus finished the job. Samson was to David as David was to Jesus.

8. Distractions are wrong way attractions.

9. To avoid a distracted life, FOCUS ON:

• What you have, not what you don't have.
• Who is with you, not who is against you
• Where you're going, not where you've been

10. When the lion rushed at Samson, God's Spirit rushed into Samson. God always gives us exactly what we need to face whatever comes our way.

7 VERSES ABOUT MAKING GOD YOUR TOP PRIORITY

Do you MAKE TIME for God, or do you only serve God when you HAVE TIME? This is the difference between a PRIORITY and an OPTION.

For too many Christians, God is a great option, but He is not a priority. Check out these seven verses (with commentary) to help you think through what it means to make God your first and central priority.

Mark 12:30 -- “And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”

If you love God, you'll give Him every corner of your life.

Matthew 6:33 -- “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

Your first decision should always be building God's Kingdom. Everything else will take care of itself.

Romans 12:2 -- Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

If you always think the way you've always thought, you'll always live the way you've always lived. Discipline your mind to think differently.

Luke 12:34 -- “For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”

Your desires will chase your treasures. If you want to prioritize the things of God, invest your treasures in the things of God.

2 Timothy 2:22 -- So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

Put physical distance between yourself and anything that tempts you to drift from God.

Ecclesiastes 12:1 -- Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth, before the evil days come and the years draw near when you will say, “I have no delight in them”;

Build lifelong habits that will help you keep your eyes, mind, and heart on God.

Psalm 37:4 -- Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

The more you focus on God, the more He will change your desires so that your heart aligns with His. 

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10 BIBLE VERSES YOU CAN SEND AS AN ENCOURAGING TEXT

Do you want to be a force for good in the lives of your friends and family? What if you started sending 3-5 encouraging texts every day? Just choose a couple of people in your contact list and send them one of the verses listed below (or find your own!).

• Exodus 15:2 - The Lord is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation.
  

• Psalm 34:4 - I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears.

• Psalm 46:1 - God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

• Psalm 118:24 - This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.

• John 14:27 - Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

• John 16:33 - In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.

• Ephesians 6:10 - be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might.

• Philippians 4:13 - I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

• Colossians 1:11 - May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy

• 2 Timothy 1:7 - For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.

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You Cannot Call Jesus LORD If You Do Not First Call Him MASTER

In the Gospels, Jesus is referred to as "Lord" numerous times, particularly in the letters of Paul. Even today, this title is often used by people in prayer, church, and conversation. However, has "Lord" become so common that we have lost the significance of its true meaning?

To call Jesus "Lord" is to recognize and acknowledge Him as the supreme authority. It means surrendering to His will and submitting to His leadership and obeying His commands. It is a declaration of allegiance and devotion.

Calling Jesus "Lord" is a commitment that should not be made lightly.

In Matthew 7:21, Jesus says, "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven." This verse reminds us that it is not enough to simply profess our faith in Jesus with our words. We must also demonstrate our faith through our actions and obedience to His commands.

In Luke's account, Jesus said, "Why do you call me 'Lord, Lord,' and not do what I tell you?" This passage highlights the disconnect between professing faith in Jesus and actually living out that faith. To truly follow Jesus as Lord and Master, we must not only say the words but also put them into practice. One cannot claim allegiance to Christ without also submitting to His agenda.

In short, calling Jesus "Lord" carries a great responsibility. It requires us to submit to His authority and follow His commands. It is not a title to be taken lightly, but rather a commitment to live out our faith in action. If we claim to follow Jesus as Lord, it is essential that we also submit to Him as Master, obeying His commands and serving Him with our whole hearts. 

12 Sermon Leftovers about PRIORITIES

 We are kicking off 2023 with a sermon series about Priorities. We're going to study the GREAT COMMANDMENT and discover how our central priority needs to be loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. Below are 12 statements about PRIORITIES from the first sermon:

1. Every "YES" is a "NO" to something else. You cannot have it all.

2. You cannot do it all. The good news is that God never asked you to do it all.

3. Prioritizing anything means rejecting something to choose a better thing.

4. You are never too busy. You just don't have the right priorities.

5. Priorities are CHOSEN, not spoken or felt.

6. Priorities shape your decisions and your decisions shape your life.

7. Prioritizing God means loving Him with every part of your life.

8. Loving God means deciding to give up our own desires so that we can live for His purposes.

9. Jesus' life was extraordinarily different than everyone else's because Jesus' priorities were extraordinarily different than everyone else's.

10. If your priorities are truly different than the world, then your actions will reflect that truth.

11. I can observe your priorities by observing your life.

12. Your priorities are reflected in your bank account, your calendar, your browser history, your social media timeline, your YouTube history, and even your Netflix favorites.

Ask These FIVE QUESTIONS At The End Of Every Day

What do you do right before you fall asleep? Are you watching the news and complaining about how bad the world has become? Are you scrolling social media, concerned about what you might have missed or coveting what you might not have?

Why not use those final minutes of your day to focus your mind on a beneficial, uplifting, and spiritually healthy trajectory. As you close out your day, ask yourself these five questions to ensure that you finish well:

Have I read and contemplated God's Word?

the Bible is our primary source of guidance and direction in life. Psalm 119:105, says, "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path." Through reading and chewing on God's Words, we can gain wisdom and understanding of God's will for us.

Have I confessed my shortcomings and mistakes?

Confession is an important part of the Christian life, as it allows us to repent and turn away from our sinful ways. In 1 John 1:9, it says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." God has already forgiven our sins in Christ, but through confession, we are able to receive that forgiveness and in turn forgive ourselves.

Have I thanked God for His blessings?

Thanking God for His blessings is an acknowledgement that every good gift is from above. Colossians 3:17, says, "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." By giving thanks to God, we will grow our gratitude habit, we will remind ourselves of how many blessings we truly have received, and we will feed our mind spiritually health food.

Have I encouraged and provided assistance to others?

As Christians, we are called to love and serve others, and one way to do this is by encouraging and providing assistance to those in need. Galatians 6:2 reminds us to, "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." When we use our gifts and resources for the good of others, we are fulfilling Christ's command to love our neighbors as ourselves.

Have I prayed for those whom I love?

There are few better ways to close out a day than to pray for others. Praying for those we love is an important way to show our love and concern for them. In 1 Thessalonians 5:17, it says, "Pray continually." Praying for those closest to us is important because prayer is effective. And, it is also good and beneficial to pray for those not close to us, even our enemies sometimes. Prayer is the portal through which we draw near to the heart of God.

Meditate on these questions as you lie in bed. There is no better way to finish your day.

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